Novelty is the Key to a Successful FWB Relationship

One of my friends, an adult affair finder, told me that the reason why he and his FWB ended this NSA relationship was that his FWB always liked to stick to him all day long. This is more than he can bear. Although he knew that she was his good friend and that the end of the relationship might mean that their friendship would be greatly threatened, he still did so. This is because he has found that the NSA relationship has run counter to the nature of the relationship. Besides, he can't get what he wants in this relationship. So he chose to end the NSA relationship. I believe that this is not strange for many nsa finders, because many people will encounter this situation. Therefore, it is necessary to keep a certain distance from their sexual partners if they want to maintain a successful casual relationship. Otherwise, it will make them bored, even painful. Here are some principles that should be followed by hookup finders to help them manage a successful casual relationship.

Give him enough space

In a friends with benefits relationship, if you look for your sexual partner every day, it may make your friend feel stressed and have no personal space. Everyone needs privacy and wants to have their own personal space to do their own things, but if you visit and disturb him every day, he will have no time to do his own things. I believe that you must be in love with your sexual partner, so you want to contact him all the time, but your love will suffocate people. In a NSA relationship, your love is not allowed. It will ruin your relationship.

Feeling of freshness

Connecting every day means you don't have your own secrets. Your partner knows exactly what you do every day. But it's very bad for a NSA relationship. FWB needs to keep fresh. The secret of keeping fresh is to keep you attractive and mysterious all the time. Without freshness, it's easy to end this boring relationship. Sex is at the core of every NSA relationship. Sex can bring excitement and satisfaction to hookup finders. When your focus is no longer on sex, the relationship will lose its appeal and necessity.

Understand your own value

Contacting your FWB every day will make him tired of you or even despise your existence. The casual lovers they are looking for here are not a soul mate that warms their hearts. So, your close connection is just an interruption to them. They will not cherish you. And easy to get things are easy to abandon, so you need to understand their own value.

When you get along with a hookup finder, you should understand your own value, give each other enough space, keep the love fresh, do not contact frequently, even if you are good friends, do not chat every day. It only leads to the final breakup of your relationship.